Celebrating Deepavali: Family Traditions, Food, and Community Bonds
In Singapore, the vibrant lights of Little India signal the arrival of Deepavali, a time of celebration for the Hindu, Sikh, and Jain communities. As families prepare for the festivities, some engage in last-minute shopping while others prepare elaborate meals at home. We spoke to Singaporeans about their fondest memories of Deepavali, a holiday that symbolizes the triumph of good over evil.
For Sonya, 25, the lead-up to Deepavali is what makes the holiday special. She fondly recalls the tradition of house cleaning, where her family would play A.R. Rahman’s songs as they cleaned. The task, though hard, was filled with joy and music, making the process more fun than laborious.
Yahavi, 21, reflects on the spirit of giving that defines her Deepavali experience. She remembers helping her mother prepare snacks to give to extended family and neighbors. Even though she was shy and awkward delivering the treats as a child, the sense of kindness and tradition left a lasting impression.
For M, also 21, Deepavali is a quieter, more intimate celebration. Her family doesn’t go all out, but they observe the customs of house cleaning and making snacks in case visitors come by. The day typically involves an early oil bath, prayers at the temple, and spending time with loved ones at home. Despite the crowd at the temple, the day remains a time for personal connection.
Shirly, 20, shares that for her, the best part of Deepavali is the food. Although her parents don’t typically cook, visiting friends’ homes offers a chance to indulge in authentic South Indian cuisine, full of vibrant flavors and rich aromas.
CJ, 22, who is currently studying overseas, speaks fondly of the community connection Deepavali brings. Even when away, she remembers the sight of lamps lighting up homes and the smells of curry wafting through her neighborhood. It’s a time when neighbors would share sweets, creating a sense of togetherness.
For Pranav, 24, Deepavali is a time for family reunion. He cherishes the rare occasions when the extended family gathers at his grandfather’s house, providing an opportunity to reconnect with relatives, even those he doesn’t see often due to busy schedules.
Sarah, 23, admits that as a child, she dreaded Deepavali due to the attention her relatives would give to her cousins’ achievements and the unsolicited comments on her own life. However, as she grew older, she found new meaning in the holiday, appreciating the food, the company of friends and family, and the beautiful cultural traditions.
Finally, for another participant, the highlight of Deepavali is the traditional food prepared by her grandmother. The family makes it a point to coordinate their clothing and decorate their home, creating an atmosphere of joy and unity that makes the holiday unforgettable.
